Like a words: "god gave everyone a cup of water, and so, you drink from it into life."
People can pursue can choose way of life you love, but not abandon violence of the nature of life. Life was a glass of water, poor and rich, powerful and humble, etc, are all but a man according to their own state of mind and the ability to add flavor of life. Some people like rich exciting life, put it into many kinds of sauce mix. Some people like taking pains of life, put it into a mixed coffee. Some people like in life adding more honey, put it into sugar and water. Some people like to use life tea, fine taste the GanXiang. Others what also don't add, just like the authentic plain boiled water. The more someone unconsciously through the life into bitter medicine and even poison, personally put their life buried.
What kind of life is happiness of life? In fact, happiness is a state of mind. You feel happy, life is happiness, you feel the pain, life is in pain. With one day, someone is looked up and saw YinYi layer upon layer, someone is through clouds, but can feel the stretch of blue.
A trip home to visit DuoNian, fortune has not seen a childhood partner. Each other all feel surprise, they meet stayed up all night talking. To talk to friends, I just know, she suffered many suffering, but I failed to the cheerful smile from her found in any trace. Her mother's death in the early years, her father to help three siblings for college. Later, suffered another extremely had married a critically ill and recover after but paralyzed. Her husband is a rural primary school teacher, income also not much, and she I began as a substitute teacher, a wages are lower. In order to support this home, she told her to the somebody else would not everyone's planting, after school went to able to eat not over of could get up selling market. Night classes and not only to take care of, will settle two extremely young children. I also heard that, although she is always so busy, but she never because home and drag their work and study. In school, her teaching level than those from regular schools out of the poor, the teacher she teach students appraisal out or the first year after year. Has free time, she can take their children to hiking, go for an outing. This year she has participated in full member of teacher of run by the test, the results on the first.
I asked her, will feel hard? Her vivacious laughter. She said that, although some, but poor life is very solid, very satisfied. Often, look at the family dinner HeHeMeiMei sitting in class, you see kids eager eyes, worked to see that when a piece of green crops, oil flow hearts feel the warmth of happiness. She said, man is not rich, but happiness have less money, also can live very happy. She is a very clever woman. Her husband's shirt collar is broken, she put a collar and down to sew, and can wear it YiNianBanZai. Children have no clothes, she wears the old clothes to give the child do cut down clothes. A neighbor of the curtain, she felt lost cloth, it will be good to make antependium, screen. It is often wear the relatives and friends, the old clothes, big change is small, can also be on their favorite style into new style.
Looking at her black belt in red, in orange light glowed with a healthy luster face, my heart started to feel from that place. Before the old man always go home, head of the half took to joke that I, can easily in living in the city, is how happiness. When I think of himself than living is not how of acquaintances, occasionally smug. However, in front of her, all the rest have disappeared. I also dare not to talk about, what, what is life, what is happiness.
I dare not say to her, many of the city's friends, they live how comfortable rich. They talk about their own clothing spent hundreds of thousands of yuan, style or how they trendy, with the guidance of the car isn't any luxury car, they abuse the last night the meal meal isn't worth thousands of dollars, they have not to go off work, began to meet tonight in whose CARDS playing mahjong...... They also kept hair every day about, they often feel tired, child, husband as if still don't know them. They walked in the street the outpouring of indifference pale eyes, is luxuriant cloak wrapped a YanZu heart is forever. Their happiness? Only their own heart just know, but I know it must not we yearn for happiness. Life is just a cup of water, but they give their that a cup of adjustable too much color, they had recklessly they prematurely overdraw the glass of water.
Someone alive, and don't know what you want. So blindly envy, blindly pursuing, often but always and happiness brush past. In fact, each person no matter in any situation, as long as the correct their own state of mind, learn to grasp, learn to meet, learn to be grateful, life is happiness. At the same time, happiness is not can use you can get much property have to measure how much reputation, social harmony, the family harmony, the health of the body can let a person feel real happiness.
Life is just that a cup of water, must depend on oneself slowly to taste, carefully to chew, appreciate, you can discover, original, the most happiness of life, which is in the water in the dull live out wonderful.